A week later the schedule reflected my being gone. But the worst thing she did was something else. My mom and I lived with her parents growing up. I was extremely close to my grandma. She had a stroke a few months previously and had many complications including pneumonia which was in the process of killing her. I got a call late one night to talk to her because I hadn’t been able to get to see her in a while and she was so anxious she wasn’t sleeping. They thought maybe me talking to her would help the stroke left her unable to communicate and it did.